Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Joey Graceffa Scandal….

Honestly, I don’t even understand why this is becoming such a big thing.

For those of you who don’t know, Joey Graceffa is a YouTuber with about 2,000,000 subscribers. Now, I am one of them, and I have been watching Joey for a looong time, but in no way will that make this post biased.

Recently a man by the name of Nate Clark who is a Radio host for KCRW, posted a video telling his side to what happened when Joey Graceffa’s car was towed a couple of days back. 



The video has amassed over 1,000,000 views as of this post and is growing. In response people are OUTRAGED, feeling so betrayed that Joey could “lie” and be so “one-sided”. My response to that is... who cares?

I don’t think anyone has EVER completely told a story in which they were the culprits 100%. I know I haven’t. And it’s a shame that Joey had to get called out on it specifically when it’s something many people do everyday, especially if you aren’t in a good mood – I know I wouldn’t be if MY car got towed.

If something like this were to happen to me - or anyone else I’m sure - even if I was in the wrong, I would not be thinking, oh this was a perfectly logical reason for this occurring… I am so in the wrong. I would be thinking “HOLY CRAP MY CAR JUST GOT TOWED” It would not be in my interest to have people add to my already distressed state of mind, so I wouldn’t go around feeling like I should atone for a sin or something. Jeez.

If people are going to spend time going back to Joey’s video to bash it and whatnot, then they themselves are calling out and blaming Joey… for just being a human being. He never named the guy who towed his car * cough * Nate Clark * cough * specifically. It was just a normal rant. That’s what we do when we are upset. We rant.

All in all, I hope this blows over, and people can just go back to watching and enjoying Joey’s videos because first and foremost he IS an entertainer, sure he may have been in the wrong, but are you telling me in the same situation you wouldn’t feel as distressed and say the same thing.

I for one do not dislike Joey any less, in fact it made me like him more because it shows me he IS a human being, and when people spend so much time watching YouTube videos for the personalities and personas, they tend to forget that.

Let me know what you guys think about this whole situation below; do you think it’s unimportant and should blow over? Or are you genuinely offended by either Joey OR Nate?

Take home message for today: People are human beings. Human Beings make mistakes. Therefore; people make mistakes. Learn from them, move on.

Links to all of the mentioned people and videos:
Joey Vlogging about his car being towed: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ybb8o5oqzDk
Nate responding to Joey’s video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VHZRot-EK8Y

Take care,
SiSi


Saturday, October 19, 2013

Why I Do Not Like AbeBooks...

Hello lovely people of the internet, I’d hate to start this blog with a rant, but I really do have something to complain about that’s been bothering me.

The world today does about 65% of its shopping online… Just kidding, I made that statistic up, but it’s believable, right? :p Now, a while back I ordered a textbook online on this site called AbeBooks thinking it would arrive within two to three weeks, as promised. (It LOOKED pretty reliable… I was wrong…)

Flash forward three weeks, and the book hasn’t arrived, now it was pretty important that I had this book by a certain time so I ended up renting another one for about $80 until I could get mine, hopefully, within a week, and then get a full refund. Flash-forward a week, and the book still does not come. So I am now unable to return my rental for my $80… which is no big deal, I’m thinking “Whenever my book actually comes I might as well sell it so that I can cover my losses.” (Keep in mind that this book cost about $95 online.)

Now, since I have my book rental, I forgot about the ordered one for a while… let’s say about a month… (hey, life piled a TON of work on me)… and then as I was checking my spam e-mails from the AbeBooks site one afternoon I realize there is no trace of my book… So I use the customer service option on AbeBooks to let them know. They say contact the specific bookseller who was supposed to ship the book… So I do. The bookseller does NOT reply. I contact AbeBooks again, and they say they can neither refund me ANY money or make sure I get the book since its been past 30 days for the book to arrive… WHAT?!

So I have come to the conclusion that not only am I bookless, but I was practically robbed of 95 bucks -.- And to add to my frustration, the bookseller is being silent as a grave.

This got me thinking, if I was a bookseller using AbeBooks, I could just say I shipped something and then never ship it, and assuming that the customer doesn’t reply or contact me within 30 days, thinking it’s just slightly late, then I’m no longer required to refund them… Easy money. Does that seem right to you?

Now I’m not used to online shopping, infact this was my first time so it wasn’t a positively enlightening experience, but if you guys use online shopping sites often, does this ever happen to you? Let me know in the comments below, and if you have any super reliable sites then please share them with me…


But to those of you who have NEVER online shopped, then fear not, I actually tried other sites like Amazon (which was slightly late, but overall alright) and CafePress which was remarkable quick and efficient, so I recommend that should you want to order something online, use those.

Alright, thanks for reading,
Take care!

SiSi xoxo  

Sunday, October 13, 2013

Welcome

Hello Everyone!

I’d be lying if I said that I’ve been thinking of doing this for a while… It was kind of spontaneous :P But I have so much I want to say and do, and I thought that making a blog would be the perfect way to share it with others :) I have a YouTube Channel that I may or may not upload things to in the future: http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGz3KJ0lp09ol0eIRFkw13g

BUT, for now, this is where I shall be expressing and sharing everything that I want to… :D

I have a wide range of things I want to talk about here: from food to fashion and design to travels! I hope you join in on my blog with me and share ideas and things you enjoy.

Take care, and let’s start this journey together!


~ SiSi xoxo